Italian Cream Cake…and a Milestone Birthday

Italian Cream Cake with Mascarpone Buttercream RecipeThis birthday is not a milestone birthday for the reason you might think. It isn’t the beginning of a new decade for me.  No, it’s much more significant than that.  Ten years ago, just a day or two before my forty-seventh birthday, I received my first chemotherapy treatment for breast cancer.  On that birthday,  I wasn’t thinking much about my age.  I wasn’t thinking much about anything except fighting for my life.  The passage of time had taken on new meaning  Instead of dreading the thought of getting older, each year’s passing brought me out of the darkness of fear and into the light of recovery.
Italian Cream Cake with Mascarpone Buttercream  RecipeBy the time I reached my middle years, I had grown wise enough to realize the importance of living in the present moment.  Never one to wish away time, I was suddenly fixated on the future.  Jael was only thirteen at the time, and so often I found myself lost in “what if” thinking.  Those thoughts were unbearable, but they were also what fueled my fight.
Italian Cream Cake with Mascarpone Buttercream  Recipe So here I am!  Ten years later!!  Celebrating bigger than ever this birthday.  The passing of years has brought peace of mind and an odd sense of accomplishment.  To be sure, I did not win my fight through will alone.  With the love and support of family and friends, and the good fortune to have had great doctors, I am a survivor.  And as trite as it may sound, I am grateful for my journey.  The gifts along my road to recovery have been countless.
Italian Cream Cake with Mascarpone Buttercream  RecipeSo today I am celebrating by baking myself a birthday cake.  Do you know why I am baking my own cake?  Because I can!  Because getting back to my oven was a motivator when I was struggling through chemotherapy.  And because this year is special.
Italian Cream Cake with Mascarpone Buttercream  RecipeThis cake isn’t particularly fancy, but it suits my taste perfectly.   I have been intrigued with its origin for a very long time and so I did a little research.  Turns out its name is a little misleading since there isn’t anything Italian about it.  It hails from the South, which was a happy coincidence since I am a KY girl.  Each golden layer is laced with flaky coconut and studded with chopped pecans.  More pecans are folded into what is traditionally a cream cheese frosting.  On a quest to put some legitimate ‘Italian’ into my cake, I topped it with a Mascarpone Buttercream instead.  The final creation was a cake more than worthy of such a special occasion.
Italian Cream Cake with Mascarpone Buttercream  Recipe Italian Cream Cake with Mascarpone Buttercream LR-2576

Sending a special thank you to my husband for bearing with me during shooting these photos.  It was incredibly hot, and I probably gave more instructions from in front of the camera than he would have liked.  ‘Thank you, Hun, for your patience and your love!’  Below is the poem he wrote for me for my birthday.  Such a talented man.

My Love –
You
have between heartbeats
present and solid as stone
yielding and ephemeral.
You
are a constancy
as time flows.
My experience
of you
is that you are my coming
and going
You
are placed center
as life rises and falls.
My neshma
My breath
as I breathe in and out
rocking forward
then still
as the pulse of life
beats on.
Steady, here, present
as we swirl and dance
grasp for stars
or simply gaze at them burning
grateful
that life placed us
close together
to spend it –
such precious currency
in this little shop
of our entwined experience.
Now, a birthday,
a moment to count
how well it has been expended
Rich are we both
in love.

 


Note:  I researched many recipes before choosing the cake component from Vintage Cakes by Julie Richardson.  If you have a fondness for heirloom recipes, you will want to pick up a copy of her book.




23 thoughts on “Italian Cream Cake…and a Milestone Birthday

  1. Oh, Mary, this post brought tears to my eyes, after an initial jolt to my heart when I read the first paragraph. But my tears were happy tears as I am so glad I met you and count you as one of my friends. Thanks for writing this and thanks for staying strong so that I can be your friend (we really need to get together already!)

    XOXO

    • Thanks Lana for your kind words. I couldn’t agree more…we need to get together. What are you doing the beginning of October. Let’s collaborate on a post!

  2. What a beautiful post, celebrating two truly original creations! I love how you tweak an idea and then the recipe, to bring it to life. Cake for everyone, and may you have many more candles to wish over. xo

  3. Such an evocative post! It is so easy to take each day for granted and let the present moment slide away with thoughts of regret about our yesterdays and anxiety about our tomorrows. When all our living is really right here, right now. Bravo to ten years of wonder and delight! And a slice of the gorgeous Italian Cream Cake would brighten any day!

    • Thanks Deb. We obviously share the same philosophy on ‘living in the present moment’. I also believe that as many of those moments as possible should be filled with enjoying delicious food. And to that I say…let’s eat CAKE!

  4. Mary,
    Mazel Tov on not only your birthday, but on 10 years of being cancer free. I wish you many more birthdays.

    Love Lori

  5. who is more talented…the baker or the poet…hard to say…no need to choose

    both come up with yummy stuff….except the poem has no calories

  6. You had me at ‘laced with flakey coconut and studded with pecans’! Yum. I really cannot wait to bake this. I just need a holiday/reason. Maybe not…

    Happy Birthday and milestone day. We love you and celebrate every day of your good health. May you have decades ahead of you for sharing beautiful pictures and wonderful recipes with your readers. Thanks to you, my baking has improved and you are m y go-to person for recipes.

  7. Beautiful celebration…dressed in white….slicing into the pretty white cake…quiet moments…reflecting on the magnificent milestone.

    Beautiful, Mary.

  8. I`m happy you`re a survivor and was able to recover from this! 🙂 Happy (very late) Birthday! Celebrating with homemade cake and the people you love is the best way to celebrate life!

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